Hierarchy and “sneakyarchy/sneakiarchy” are not authentic, and can create problems in relationships

In ALL types of relationships, distance yourself from people you are afraid of!

A dynamic “web” of relationships can be more mutually supportive than monogamy, or even some forms of polyamory.

It’s never going to work, you know. I say this lovingly, but if you’re looking for fulfillment through a love affair with someone other than YOU, then it’s just not going to work. Ever.

Betrayal can be one of the toughest and most traumatic experiences to recover from, because of how complicated it is.

What if you held out for the kinds of relationships where you felt really seen, and met, and held, and understood?

Okay, hear me out, because this might sound shallow at first, but it’s really not. What if we viewed relationships a little bit like we view restaurants?

People sometimes tell me, “I’m afraid that if I maintain high standards in my relationships, then I’ll be alone when I’m 50”.

Here is how RA manifests in my own life.

I’m honestly really terrible at self-promotion, but I’m excited about this series. I created it after 4 clients told me things like, “It’s so weird. I just can’t seem to self-sacrifice at all anymore. I mean, I still help people, in fact I’m more effective than ever, but now it’s on my terms.”